Being a parent is never easy but when your child is diagnosed with type 1 diabetes, the job becomes even more complex.
As a psychotherapist working with parents and adolescents, and lead author of a recent study published in the Irish Medical Journal, I’ve spent time listening closely to parents who are raising teenagers with this lifelong condition. What they told me was clear: they are exhausted, worried and often coping in silence.
When a child is diagnosed with type 1 diabetes, the focus quite rightly turns to medical care: blood sugar monitoring, insulin management, carb counting and emergency plans. But behind all of that, there’s another story – that of the parent.
Many of the parents with whom I spoke described feeling overwhelmed, constantly on edge and even guilty. They often questioned whether they were doing enough or doing the right thing. As their children move into adolescence and begin taking on more responsibility, thir fear doesn’t disappear – it changes shape. Parents are still quietly carrying the burden, sometimes without even realising how much it’s affecting them.
It’s vital we acknowledge the emotional needs of parents, and not just children. When parents are supported – whether through psychotherapy, peer support, or simply being given space to talk – the whole family benefits.
In my work with parents of teens (with and without chronic illness), I’ve seen the difference it makes when parents have the opportunity to reflect, breathe and feel heard.
Therapy can help parents:
Manage anxiety and fear
Cope with their child’s growing independence
Navigate sibling dynamics
Improve emotional regulation during stressful times
Feel less alone
If you’re parenting a child with type 1 diabetes, please know that your feelings are valid, your work is seen and you deserve support.
I offer one-to-one counselling and psychotherapy for parents, including short-term focused sessions. Feel free to get in touch, even just for a chat about what support might look like.
Email me today
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call/text 087 710 7032.
Because when we care for the carers, we care for the whole family.
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